Love, Laugh and Live
Posted under: Today marks two months since Fred’s passing. I still have a ton of people to personally thank.
I still miss him every day, I don’t think that will go away.
He was just so young.
For those who are new to the blog, Fred passed away after a good battle trying to fight canine epilepsy with several medications but he always continued to seize – the monster was larger than us. He started to cluster seize and had so many seizures in a 48 hour period the most kind thing I could do is let him finally rest, Fred’s soul and spirit at that time were already gone and we knew it was time.
I just now was able to go through some of the pictures of Fred and as I sat there crying flipping through them I came across this one and started laughing.
Life with Fred was all about laughter, endless love and just trying live day-to-day without killing him.
Fred took more work than any dog ive ever owned and I would do it all over again in a heartbeat.
Please don’t be sad for us. Fred lived a great and amazing life. He was in magazines, he made one trainer actually stop her job, he probably had the highest record of going through trainers that gave up (9), he is responsible for the gray hairs on my head, he was well-known at several stores and the paint guy at Lowes started carrying dog biscuits after meeting him. Fred was able to be petted by hundreds of kids and adults. He had has his picture taken with countless people at dog events. He had so many other adventures from trips to the beach, dog park adventures, times he escaped out the door, rides in the car, going to McDonald’s on the way home from the vet, attending a night out going to a local dog friendly bar. This dog did more than some dogs have in their whole lives.
I promised Fred we would show him love and to never suffer again from the day I rescued him and we gave that to Fred. He was able to cross the bridge in peace with us surrounding him and our love shining through.
“Beginnings are usually scary, endings are usually sad, but it’s what’s in the middle that counts. So when you find yourself at the beginning, just give hope a chance to float up. And it will” – From the movie Hope Floats
Today we are taking a moment of silence for all the other dogs suffering from canine epilepsy. I will continue to support canine epilepsy and help educate owners how to live with an epileptic dog and offer any support I can.
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What a beautifully written post about Fred. It made us smile reading about all the adventures he had during his time with you. We’re glad you found each other and made such a difference in each other’s lives.
We think about Fred so often and know how you’re feeling as we also lost of precious April last month, indirectly caused by her Epilepsy. In her case, the Phenobarbital ate up her liver even though her blood was tested every 3 months. It happened so suddenly. I know they are together and watching over us.
Ahhh, Fred….you will forever be in our memory and looking forward to meeting you in the furs when we cross over the Bridge! You and your mom were an inspiration to those with doggies with illness! Yes, your short life was a very full one, you were one lucky dog to be rescued.
Drools and licks,
Minnie, Mack and foster Mario
Awesome post! We miss Fred too. But as Mom told you before, it is the memories and the old photos that will make all your tears turn to smiles:)
Paws crossed for all who suffer from epilepsy and other seizures. Hopefully there will be a cure one day soon.
Woos – Phantom, Thunder, Ciara, and Lightning
A most wonderful tribute to dear Fred. I always smile when i see his face. He did indeed have had a wonderful life. Count the moments… and never the years.
*hugs*
Love that picture. We didn’t know he had “tormented” so many trainers….makes us laugh just to think about it. Mom says she thinks about you and Fred everytime she helps transport a bloodhound to a foster home or a forever home…. he was a special boy.
Hi Hound Girl, that was a loving tribute to Fred. My peeps lost their first set of kids almost 8 years ago to old age and they still miss them. I can tell when my mom and dad are thinking about them, it’s that funny, sad, far away look they have after they reach for a tissue look.
Awesome tribute to the awesome Fred!
Sam and Pippen
Okay, you have me blubbering at my desk. Fred was larger than life, and lives on in the hearts and minds of many!
this was simply beautiful. Fred was equally as lucky to have YOU!!!
Superb!!
the love you have for Fred shines through in this post. Reminds me of “who rescued whom?”
Lovely photo and an amazing tribute. Thank you for sharing. g
What a beautiful tribute Kari, you were all very blessed to have each other.
Beautiful post for Fred. We will always remember and love his goofy self and his ability to always give us some good giggles.
-Corbin
What a beautiful post…… I know Fred is looking down on you all and wagging that tail like mad!
What a wonderful post, and a great picture of Fred.
The silvers and more
Wonderful post. And that photo of Fred made me and MOM laugh too.
Blessings,
Goose
He was a lovely dog and as lucky to have you as you were to have him Deccy x
What a wonderful post Kari. I love Fred and I miss him. For the short time he was on this earth he made such an impression! He was one great hound!
Love ya!
What a wonderful post for Fred. He touched so many hearts, mine for one. But I know him and Tabby are baying at the Moon. Sniffs, The HoundDogs and Mom
That is a beautiful picture! I’m sure it speaks much of his personality!
I miss Fred too. That picture is wonderful.
I just love that picture. Such a great tribute!
Wow – 9 trainers and 1 career change!!!! I’m in love with his spirit. He must have been SO amazing.
I’m glad that you’re remembering Fred with a smile first before the tears. You never get over it, but the days do get a little easier. I love the quote from ‘Hope Floats.’ It’s so true!!
What a great photo! So Fred.
Thanks for helping us remember Fred and the wonderful life he had. In spirit always…
We will ALL Always miss Fred.
What a beautiful post! My Maggie has been gone four months now and we know exactly how you feel.
(((hugs)))
Mom LOVES the movie Hope Floats!
Love ya lots,
Mitch
We miss you, Fred.
My Mom’s eyes are leaking…..beautiful tribute!
Beautiful perspective about a wonderful boy! You and Fred were lucky to have found each other and will be forever bound…as it should be. We will cherish the memories of him that you shared.
Kari that was beautiful. Thanks for the photo of Fred. It’s a beauty. He certainly was loved that isn’t that the best feeling ever! Take care. No worries, and love, Carol (and Stella and Rory)
That was just so beautiful and inspiring! Fred reminded me a lot of my Fred. A bugger with a huge heart! You were so blessed to have found each other and spend so many wonderful times together! That is such a great picture of him with the giant rawhide bone! We miss Fred, too!
He was such a handsome boy
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Kari
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Beautiful memories of your beloved Fred… and such a perfect photo to go with it.
We still cry and think of our Zip every single day and it has been a couple of years now. Some dogs really do leave pawprints on our hearts.
What a wonderful picture of Fred…beautiful memories.
xoxo Chloe and LadyBug
What a beautiful tribute to the one of a kind Fred. Your love shines through in this post.
*hugs*
Pam & Oskar
It’s a lovely photo and I’m glad it’s such a great memory for you.
A very nice tribute to Fred. That is a huge bone.
Bella and DiDi
Oh Fred! What a goof ball! It is good to look at the happy pictures and remember the good times.
Slobbers,
Mango
What a very excellent picture. I love the way you’ve continued to honor Fred all the time. It’s very sweet, and I hope I can emulate you when my time eventually comes.